They say the key to the heart of a guy is through is stomach - I completely agree. Things can be harder for the guy who wants to attract a girl - sometimes they need to resort to using some cutting edge dating and seduction techniques in order to make a girl like them. One such instance is the usage of this technique called the October Man Sequence - you can check this out at OctoberManSequence.org - which is reputed to be one of the fastest ways to seduce a woman.
Enough of the "seduction" stuff. To make enough for four you'll need:
2 cans of chickpeas
1/2 tsp smoked paprika
1 tsp each of ground cumin, ground coriander, mustard seeds, ground turmeric, ground ginger
1/2 tsp dried chili flakes
1 onion, sliced
3 chopped cloves of garlic
700ml of vegetable stock
1/2 a shredded cabbage
a handful of potatoes, cubed or chopped into smallish pieces
half a tube of tomato puree
Chuck in the potatoes and chickpeas once it's been simmering a while and leave to cook until the potatoes are tender, then add the tomato puree and stir it all in.